Posted in Iloilo, Personal Stories

Daily Obstacle: Crossing the Street

In order to get to work I have to pass by a pedestrian lane (that doesn’t seem like one because the vehicles drive so fast you might think there’s a car racing going on!)

Crossing the streets in Iloilo City can sometimes be a struggle. Especially for a softie like me. Haha

Sometimes I’m as bold as a lion other times I freeze on the spot and wait for the vehicles to disappear, which usually takes around 5 minutes.

I always wonder if I can survive the situation.

I have just survived the chaos and safely arrived at work. An hour early before my shift.

Before crossing the street, I was able to join two men and a little boy. I consider this to always be a blessing because I don’t have to worry I just have to follow their lead.

As we waited for the perfect moment to arrive, the little boy clutching his dad’s hand looked up at me and grinned, all teeth and full of joy like he was having the best time of his life.

I wanted to laugh but I smiled instead.

Sweet innocent boy. I hope he never loses his joy when he grows up and has to cross the street. May gladness overpower fear when he takes that first step against the never ending vehicles. I pray that he will always be excited to see his dad and view life through a colored lens.

Having secured ourselves on the other side of the road, I looked back to see him still smiling at me while his dad fixed his slippers.

Thank you. You helped me find joy and courage in the simple things.”

I wanted to tell him that but he may not understand.

Sitting here on my desk made me reminisce about my pedestrian adventures.

Other memories I have:

  • I crossed the street with a dog.
  • I helped an elderly navigate through the traffic.
  • A traffic enforcer came to the rescue and helped me cross the street.
  • I joined other pedestrians and crossed the street safely.
  • My classmate and I got trapped in the middle of a busy road and a kind man driving a big car let us pass by.

Life is full of lessons and memories around. What seems like an obstacle can also be a fun part of the day.

After writing this, I searched the Web for a similar topic and came across this fun article: 12 Life Lessons You Can Learn From Crossing the Street in Vietnam.

Stay safe,

Rachel

Posted in Challenge, The Artist's Way

Week 2 : Recovering A Sense of Identity

Objective : 

(1) Address self-definition as a major component of creative recovery.

(2) Move into your personal identity, a self-defined you.

Favorite quotes:

To know what you prefer instead of humbly saying Amen to what the world tells you you ought to prefer, is to have kept your soul alive.

Robert Louis Stevenson

Slow down and enjoy life. It’s not only the scenery you miss by going too fast-you also miss the scenery of where you are going and why.

Eddie Cantor

Develop interest in life as you see it; in people, things, literature, music-the world is so rich, simply throbbing with rich treasures, beautiful souls and interesting people. Forget yourself.

Henry Miller

Verse of the week:

For we are His creation, created in Christ Jesus for good works which God prepared ahead of time so that we should walk in them.

Ephesians 2:10

Lessons Learned:

Self-doubts are symptoms of recovery.

When we give ourselves permission to recover that’s when the doubts will hit you like a ton of bricks. They will sprout like beans poking every corner of your brain ’til you get exhausted in dealing with them. But! This is not the time to give up! This is the time to fight back with affirmations.

Learn to identity crazy-makers (toxic people).

In the path to self-recovery we need to identify our toxic habits, perspectives, and most importantly the toxic people in our lives. Toxic people drain your energy.

“The capacity of delight is the gift of paying attention.”

One of the most important lessons I have learned this week is the gift of paying attention. And for everyday of this week I kept reminding myself to pay attention especially to nature. There is so much beauty in the world that when we truly open our hearts and eyes, we will know that we will be okay. Even in this moment right now, we are okay.

**I really loved this chapter, it’s beautifully written and emotionally evoking.

Grab a copy here.